Last weekend I attended my aunt's funeral in Delaware. It was an emotional time for my family, especially my cousins. There are not many passages as painful as losing a mother. And one grief has a way of bringing up all the other losses we've experienced. As I gave my eulogy for my aunt, I mourned my own dead parents and brothers again. But I also realized how fortunate we writers are to be able to put thoughts and feelings into words. Stories have a way of sustaining us through the difficult times in our lives. This much I know to be true. The dead are alive when we think of them. And grief is the price we pay for love. A steep price, but well worth it.
The theme of this blog is writing and life. And how the two often intersect. It's hard for me to remember a time when I didn't write. When I was seven, my father won a Smith Corona portable typewriter in a poker game. It came with 45 rpm records that taught typing skills. I sat at the kitchen table, found the home keys and began to practice. And I've been writing stories and poems ever since.
Last weekend I attended my aunt's funeral in Delaware. It was an emotional time for my family, especially my cousins. There are not many passages as painful as losing a mother. And one grief has a way of bringing up all the other losses we've experienced. As I gave my eulogy for my aunt, I mourned my own dead parents and brothers again. But I also realized how fortunate we writers are to be able to put thoughts and feelings into words. Stories have a way of sustaining us through the difficult times in our lives. This much I know to be true. The dead are alive when we think of them. And grief is the price we pay for love. A steep price, but well worth it.
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Marjorie Reynolds
5/1/2013 03:14:51 pm
Sounds as though you have many good, thoughtful stories to tell. I look forward to reading them.
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sherry mullens
5/3/2013 12:37:29 am
Some writers have the gift of making life more meaningful through their writings. You have that gift. Can't wait to see more!
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Jane Sutherland
5/3/2013 05:18:04 am
Masterful website, life affirming blog. Can't wait to read more.
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5/3/2013 11:22:13 am
There's much wisdom in what you say about remembering our dearly departed and the price we pay.
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Carol Clough
5/3/2013 04:53:09 pm
Enjoyed your blog writings. So sorry for the loss of your Aunt. Had she been sick. Wasn't she one that you were very close to? Give Linda my condolences. We certainly know what and how she is feeling. Glad you could be there for her!
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JeanMarie Robertson
5/4/2013 03:03:54 am
Enjoyed your Blog
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Patti Sias
5/4/2013 09:09:53 am
Wish I could paint pictures with my words like you do. You are a very gifted and talented writer.
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5/4/2013 09:47:48 am
Thanks, Patti. A voice from my past. I hope you are well and happy.
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toni mucklow
5/5/2013 03:24:49 am
I learned a lot from your words in the past and I hope to read more. Thank you.
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Sandy Pedrick
5/6/2013 01:28:02 pm
We are very blessed to have you in our life! We love you very much and your eulogy was beautiful...
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Marjorie Reynolds
5/12/2013 02:23:05 pm
Beautiful memories of your mother. You were so lucky to have her and I'm sure she felt the same.
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Susan Domingos
7/13/2013 05:16:52 am
I especially enjoyed the blog about Lick Creek and the one about your mother. They inspired me. Thank you.
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9/13/2015 05:28:50 am
The integral role of the intellectuals is accepted and absorbed. The skills are advanced for the proficiency and efficiency.
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Barry
1/18/2016 01:52:25 am
How, true my friend. Many of us take solace from this song published in 1919 created by Spanish-American War officer Gordon Johnstone:
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